This is a piece we were really sad to write - but nonetheless this is a repeated ask on the communities as many doctors shield referrals as if that will keep you healthy somwhow.
Depending on your location and insurance coverage, you might need a referral to see a specialist. Usually, the process means you’ll
- Schedule an appointment with your main doctor (or OB/GYN).
- During the appointment, describe your symptoms
- Ask for a referral to an endometriosis specialist for further investigation.
A good doctor will listen to you, try to figure out if they have another explanation for your symptoms, and possibly offer it.
However, if you ask for a referral due to a medical concern, in a field they’re not an expert in, they should not refuse to give you one, NOR set terms with you like “you must take this pill first and then I’ll give you a referral”.
Your health comes first.
A delay in diagnosis might cause you a lifelong decrease in quality of life.
No doctor should stand between you and getting answers.
What if my doctor refuses to give a referral?
- Switch doctors.
There are many out there, and “scare tactics” should not scare you to stay in - but push you out.
- Ask your doctor to list out all of your symptoms and summarize in writing that it’s their medical opinion you don’t need a referral at this time despite it all.
This is a legally binding document you could take to court if a late diagnosis will hurt your long term health and will make you eligible for severances.
Usually, asking for it will magically get you the referral(s) you need.
If not, and you actually get such signed paper, keep it for legal purposes, just in case, and then find a new doctor to get that referral.
- Learn more about when to see a specialist and how to structure your care team.
